I had so much fun chatting with Heather Vickery, author of ๐ ๐*๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ง๐ก๐๐จ๐จ: ๐๐๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐ง๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐
Having fear isnโt the issue, says Heather. After all, fear is what protects us from real danger. But if we can break down our fears and question which ones serve us (or donโt ๐), we can learn to push through and reach our goals.
Itโs all about taking ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐๐ก risk.
In this episode, Heather explains her BRAVE framework and how to use it as a trusty roadmap to reach our big, scary goals.
BRAVE stands for:
๐oundaries
๐ฅeassessment, reframing, resilience,
๐ction and accountability
๐ฉulnerability
โฆwhich all lead toโฆ๐ฅโฆ
๐xpansion and empowerment (our results)!
Rarely do amazing things happen to us due entirely to luck. Itโs more about how we (bravely!) show up in the world so we can create the thing that we want.
My conversation with Heather reminded me of my favorite quote from Seneca:
Book order: โ โ F*ck Fearless: Making the Brave Leapโ โ
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I just got great feedback from a client regarding my process; she thought a tactic we used was helpful to landing her new job. ๐
To be honest, the tactic is so simple that Iโd taken it for granted.
Iโm referring to the practice of using 1-3 job descriptions (a.k.a. job postings) to help you focus and tailor your resume to your target role.
The key to writing a compelling resume is to begin with the end in mind: In what role do you see yourself in 6 months? How can you help the employer envision YOU in that role?
Job postings help you future-proof your resumeโand learn to think like an employer.
So, how can you use and analyze job descriptions?
๐ต๏ธโโ๏ธ Dig for themes
๐ Gather your own examples of success
๐ฏ Align and get specific
๐ Differentiate yourself
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So many of us used strategies that worked well early in our career:
1๏ธโฃ Preparing to perfection
2๏ธโฃ Eagerly pleasing
3๏ธโฃ Fitting the mold
4๏ธโฃ Putting pedal to the metal
5๏ธโฃ Performing patiently (Oh, how can they NOT notice my amazing work?!)
Do any of these sound familiar?
โ ๏ธ Hereโs the problem:
Those same strategies can stifle our promotion to executive leadership roles.
Despite our best efforts to excel and stand out, a seat at the leadership table may seem elusive, leaving us feeling undervalued and stuck in our current position.
Ellen knows her stuff. Sheโs a Clinical Associate Professor at the Kellogg School of Management, where she teaches Personal Leadership Insights and is the Director of Womenโs Leadership Program.
Before that, she spent 25 years with Fortune 500 companies holding the top brand management post at divisions of PepsiCo, Royal Caribbean, and Whirlpool Corporation.
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The first order of business in overcoming interview-related anxiety is ๐ฅ:
๐ก Remember that youโre also interviewing THEM! Yes, youโre the candidate, but fit is as important for you as it is for them. You deserve the opportunity to gather your own intel to make a decision.
๐ก Write down 10 success stories to share.
๐ก Curate a list of possible (interviewer) questions.
๐ก Record your answers on Zoom or Yoodli.
๐ก If the interview will be remote, this is a great opportunity to check how you should clean up your background, and check your eye level to see if youโre looking through the camera.
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She’s an expert at the art of developing a unique voice that resonates with readers and strengthens our connection with them.
As a marketer, she’s consulted with more than 100 tech companies, so believe me when I tell you she understands voice.
With her extensive knowledge and future-focused approach, Anne continues to serve as a trusted guide for aspiring writers so we can quickly adapt our writing to the evolving landscape of technology and reader preferences.
Anne demystifies the concept of voice and its impact on our writing through her engaging and relatable style.
Listen to our conversation about the importance of honing our writer’s voice and the transformative power it can have on how we connect with others.
In this episode:
Discover the power of developing your unique writing voice to unlock a world of creative expression, and create captivating storytelling. Gain useful insights into the art of sentence structure to create writing that flows seamlessly. Craft clear and concise content that captivates readers and keeps them engaged.
ABOUT ANNE+ RESOURCES
To continue getting guidance on writing, join Anne’s writing list at โ AnneJanzer.comโ . I guarantee she walks her talk about getting to the point quickly and adding value for her readers.
Did I mention that she gives away a ๐ free book ๐ on writing via raffle once a month? I know this is true because I’ve been a lucky recipient ๐.
If you’re interested in ordering Anne’s book ๐ The Writer’s Voice ๐ you’ll find it on Amazon and bookshop.org, as well as at retailers and other indie bookstores.
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By the way, if youโd like to get tips like this more frequently, I spend a lot of time on LinkedIn. Please do connect with me. You can find me at โ โ www.linkedin.com/in/emilysfwongโ โ . Please let me know if you heard me on this podcast, and let me know if thereโs a topic youโd like me to cover.
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Our readersโ inboxes are already overflowing. Grabbing their attention and making things easy for them is a non-negotiable for the modern business writer.
So I was grateful to have Erin Lebacqz of High Value Writing as my guest on Career Cohort to share advice for wrangling our words and hooking our reader right from the subject line.
(By the way, if this is one too many emails today and youโre not in the mood for reading, you can listen to our full conversation here. Iโve got you ๐.)
The following is a sampling of Erinโs advice:
โจ The Magic of the 2-part Subject Line
Imagine this: You’re rushing to leave the office, scanning through your emails, and you come across a message with the subject “Food Drive: Donate Soon.”
Without opening the email, you instantly know what it’s about and the action required.
๐ก You know to pick up some cans of soup from the store on your way home.
Now letโs apply this principle to another contextโyour job search.
If you’re sending your resume to a recruiter, consider a subject line like “Opening for Marketing Director: Resume Attached.” It’s concise and immediately tells the recipient what to expect.
๐ช๐ป The Power of Action Verbs
For resumes, I avoid the phrase โresponsible forโ and any variation of the verb โto be.โ Instead, I encourage clients to use action verbs to say more with less.
But Erin reminds us that action verbs arenโt just for resumes.
In any correspondence, verbs serve as a powerful anchor for conveying information conciselyโand even setting the right tone.
Consider: โPlease join us for the session.โ vs. โPlease attend the session.โ How do you feel when reading those 2 nearly identical invitations?
๐ฏ Knowing Our Audience and Tailoring Content Accordingly
Tailoring our message to our audience is key. The president wonโt need the same level of detail as the tech team thatโs working with us on a project.
Letโs just rememberโฆ
๐ค Tailoring Content Doesnโt Mean Sacrificing Respect
If thereโs one place where consistency matters, itโs how we communicate with others across our organizationโno matter their title.
After chatting with Erin, Iโm even more motivated to read every email (before I hit send) and ask myself, as the reader:
๐ค Do I feel motivated? Do I feel like my time is respected? Is there a balance between clarity (writing IQ) and empathy (writing EQ)? If not, Iโll need to work on my message. ๐ค
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Avoiding trigger words. Hint: Youโve heard the phrase, โDonโt should all over yourself.โ Well, Erin challenges us to avoid โshouldingโ all over others, too!
Giving feedback. How about starting with, Have you triedโฆ? Also works as a great replacement for Should!
Balancing brevity with warmth. Concise doesnโt have to mean cold. As Erin says, we can be โconcise AND nice!โ
ABOUT ERIN
Erin Lebacqz helps you write with confidence, clarity, and strategy. Her book and curriculum, High-Value Writing offer strategies for informing and connecting with readersโand for using writing as a management tool. Erin has been teaching writing for 25 years, in the academic, business, manufacturing, and public sectors.
RESOURCES
Erin’s High-Value Writing program and book can also help folks understand the power of both words and reader interpretation.
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If you worry about leaving money on the table when negotiating job offersโฆor youโre feeling overwhelmed by all the different types of employer equity grantsโฆor you arenโt sure which are the best options for YOU, then youโre not alone!
Many job seekers struggle to navigate the complexities of equity compensation.
So I sat down with Richard Archer, President of Archer Investment Management to learn how to navigate this often-fraught piece of the negotiation process.
Richard shared relatable stories and practical strategies to secure the equity compensation you deserve.
The following is an excerpt from our conversation. Iโve edited for brevity.
๐ฐ The basic types of equity
Emily: If we could start with a little primer about what types of equity might be included in an offer packageโฆ
Richard: Sure. Equity can be offered in a lot of different ways. You can have equity compensation, such as restricted stock, incentive stock options, or nonqualified stock options.
You can also get equity through employee stock purchase plans, which can be incredibly valuable. You also might have employer stock in your 401K. Maybe that’s how they do their match.
Or maybe you’re able to buy employer stock through your 401K. So there are different ways it can show up.
๐ฐ The difference between private and public valuation
Emily: Let’s talk about the difference between private and public companies. I understand there are different options depending on the type of company, and there are benefits to each, correct?
Richard: In general, public companies tend to be larger than private companies.
So when you’re joining a private company, that stock might have a greater probability of a lottery win, if you will, of growing really quicklyโas opposed to if you join Apple.
Appleโs stock does very well, but the chance of it tripling in size in the next 10 years is a lot lower than for a company that’s a startup that could get purchased in 3 years for $100M. And if you’ve got 1% of the stock, that’d be amazing.
So that’s one thing. The private stock tends to have more growth potential.
Another thing is that public companies have a market valuation. So when you look on Yahoo Finance or Morningstar, you can see that Apple shares are selling for X dollars right now.
On the other hand, a private company has an internal valuation provided by an internal auditor.
That internal valuation can sometimes be quite stale, especially now. So you have to be careful that the internal valuation they’re projecting for you in your offer is fair.
๐ฐ The importance of asking for current information
Emily: Why would it be stale?
Richard: Thatโs a good question. Public markets are live. Everything’s valued every day.
But private companies typically submit 409A valuations on an annual basis. So you could have an internal valuation or a 409A valuation that’s 11 months old.
Well, anyone who’s looked at the market in the last 12 months knows that tech stocks have had a really hard time, and that old valuation could be 50% or 75% higher than the actual valuation right now.
We had a client who took an offer at a big tech company that was private.
She based her house purchase decision and acceptance of the job on the valuation provided by HR, which was based on old numbers and rosy projections. Where she thought she was going to have $8M in 5 years is now probably closer to about $1.5M.
She bought this fabulous house here in Texas and is now panicking a little bit because she bought more house than she probably should have, based on the valuation provided.
Keep in mind, this is a new client to us, so we weren’t a party to that decision.
๐ฐ Understanding what weโd give up by leaving our current job
Emily: What are some questions candidates can ask on the front end so they can avoid these big mistakes later?
Richard: The first thing is to figure out what you currently get for compensation and what accolades you’ve had at your current job. That can help you negotiate a better job offer.
Have your history of raises, accomplishments, any teams that you’ve run, or new certifications you’ve earned at your current job. Look at your benefits package, like your 401k summary plan description.
Also include a listing of all current grants, like your restricted stock or stock options.
I had a client who negotiated as a salesperson for a tech company, was moving to a competitor, and had negotiated his entire offer. He had a nice salary coming in. He called me and asked whether there was anything heโd forgotten.
I said, Well, in the next 6 months, you’re going to vest $235,000 of restricted stock in your current company. Did you mention that to your new employer?
So he sent them an email. Within an hour, they gave him a vesting grant of $235,000 of stock in the new company. So with just a simple email, he earned a quarter of a million dollars.
๐ฐ Considering best fit for our lifestyle (Itโs not always obvious)
Emily: What are some other ways people can avoid leaving money on the table?
Richard: When you’re negotiating a new job, you want to think about the best type of compensation for you and your situation.
For someone who has a lot of risk tolerance and not a lot of need for cash right now, maybe they want to take more stock options, with the potential of greater earnings in the future. For others who’ve got a mortgage or college expenses, maybe cash is more important now.
We’ve got a client whoโs young. He’s a phenomenal engineer, and he keeps getting hired away to new companies. The problem is, he’s too smart for his own good.
He’s amazing, but he gets bored easily.
He jumps to the next company and the next company, and we’ve actually talked with him about taking more cash upfront and less equity, because he’s not there long enough for it to vest.
It’s more valuable for him just to take cash, even though he has the risk tolerance to take the private stock. We just take cash with him and then invest it elsewhere because it just makes more sense for him.
If youโre considering a side gigโeither as insurance in an unpredictable job market or as a creative outlet for your passion projectโvideo can be an easy entry point to set yourself up as an authority on your topic.
Just remember: The journey toward entrepreneurship is not a one-time feat. It’s a continuous process of learning, growing, and honing your skills.
The idea is to embrace every opportunityโyep, that includes โmistakesโโ as stepping stones for our growth.
One of my favorite things about my guest, Tanya (sounds like โCAN-yaโ) Smith, is that she prefers live streaming vs. recordings for the simple reason that she can let little โmistakesโ slide, making her the perfect coach to tell you itโs ok to not get hung up on what really doesnโt matter. And by the way, those little hiccups make you HUMAN, which makes you more likely to connect with your audience.
Tanya shares her own journey of how she evolved from a beginner in video marketing to an expert, with a continuous learning mindset. Her story is an inspiration for all of us who are testing new ways to show up in the world.
A FEW NUGGETS FROM TANYA
๐ก Donโt try to serve everyone. Narrow your focus and find your niche market.
๐ก You donโt need a lot of fancy or expensive gear. When starting out, make the most of your existing resources.
๐ก Strive for consistency to strengthen your craft.
๐ก If you have fun with video and see it less as another chore or duty, you’ll find the time for it, to build it, and to let it grow.
ABOUT TANYA
Tanya Smith, an on-camera video strategist and coach, empowers women-owned service businesses to cultivate a captivating conversational brand through live-stream marketing. With over a decade of experience, Tanya has emerged as a distinguished leader and sought-after expert, sharing insights about content marketing for national organizations and events. On her weekly show, Stream Like a Boss TV, Tanya offers strategies and invaluable tools to elevate your on-camera presence.
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To catch Tanya in action, visit โ streamlikeaboss.TVโ , or tune in live to her broadcasts on Facebook Live, LinkedIn, and YouTube.
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If you worry about leaving money on the table when negotiating job offers, or youโre feeling overwhelmed by all the different types of employer equity grants, or you arenโt sure which are the best options for YOU, then youโre not alone!
Many job seekers struggle to navigate the complexities of equity compensation, often realizing too late that they missed opportunities to maximize their earning potential.
Despite their best efforts, they find themselves settling for less than they deserve or failing to effectively communicate their worth to potential employers. In this episode, weโll explore common mistakes and offer strategies to help you avoid these pitfalls and secure the equity compensation you deserve.
Listen in as Richard:
Provides a quick primer on different types of equity compensation.
Equips us with a strong foundation for negotiating equity compensation.
Shares valuable tips on when to exercise stock options for maximum benefit, including tax considerations.
Coaches us on how to manage the hurdles of sales restrictions and company stock trading blackout periods.
Explains why negotiating exit packages and severance benefits on the front end is so important for senior leaders.
Richard Archer is a financial planner who helps high-achieving professionals make smart, intentional, and strategic choices with their money. He believes you can make responsible financial decisions for tomorrow, without ignoring what your soul needs today. Save and invest wisely, while simultaneously planning for a trip across the globe. And practice mindful spending like mapping out a responsible plan to purchase your dream car or home. His #1 goal for youโand all the clients he works withโis to change your relationship with money from a place of fear to one of freedom.
RESOURCES
For more great advice and articles on equity compensation and negotiation, visit Richard’s website: โ www.archerim.comโ
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